Given how careful and level-headed his parents were in chapter 13, it’s hard to see how they ended up with a son like this. Samson’s very first appearance already feels off.
“And Samson went down to Timnath, and saw a woman in Timnath of the daughters of the Philistines. And he came up, and told his father and his mother, and said, I have seen a woman in Timnath of the daughters of the Philistines: now therefore get her for me to wife.”
His parents’ reaction was, understandably, concern. “Is there never a woman among the daughters of thy brethren, or among all my people, that thou goest to take a wife of the uncircumcised Philistines?” If you remember Deuteronomy 7, you know exactly how on-point this objection was. The rule against intermarrying with foreign nations was never about ethnicity — it was about the real risk of the whole faith unraveling. And in Samson’s case, that’s more or less exactly what happens.
But his answer is telling: “Get her for me; for she pleaseth me well.” That’s it. He likes her, so get her. The text adds one strange note here — “his father and his mother knew not that it was of the LORD, that he sought an occasion against the Philistines.” It’s an odd sentence, but it seems to say that even Samson’s stubbornness could be used by God for a bigger purpose. Not a justification of his choice — more like God’s sovereignty working through, not around, human foolishness.
On the road to Timnath, a lion attacks. Samson tears it apart with his bare hands. “And the Spirit of the LORD came mightily upon him, and he rent him as he would have rent a kid, and he had nothing in his hand.” He doesn’t tell his parents. Later, passing the same spot, he finds bees have made honey inside the lion’s carcass, and eats it straight from his hand — still without telling anyone.
This detail seems small but it isn’t. Samson is a Nazarite — forbidden from touching a corpse (Numbers 6). He’s already, quietly, maybe without even realizing it, broken his own vow.
At the wedding feast, Samson poses a riddle: “Out of the eater came forth meat, and out of the strong came forth sweetness.” When the Philistine guests can’t solve it, they threaten his bride. She cries and pressures him until he gives in. On the last day of the feast, they answer correctly, and Samson explodes.
“And he said unto them, If ye had not plowed with my heifer, ye had not found out my riddle.”
The Spirit of the LORD comes upon him again, and he goes down to Ashkelon, kills thirty men, and takes their clothes to pay off the wager. Furious, he goes back to his father’s house — and his bride ends up given to someone else, the man who had been his best man.
Reading the whole chapter again, Samson comes across as someone who can’t quite tell the difference between strength and impulse. The power to tear apart a lion came from God. But how he used that power — the marriage, the revenge — came entirely out of his own emotions. That pattern doesn’t let up in the chapters ahead.
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